Of Chocolates,Cats and Guys..


Yes,that’s right ladies and gentleman.Need.We need all those things mentioned above.And why do you ask me?Well,let’s see..

         Firstly,Chocolates symbolizes Guilty Pleasures or also known as the things that we like to indulge ourselves in but is bad for our health when taken in a large amount continuously.In our life aspects,it can exist in the form of drugs,food,sex,and etc.Too much is not good yet too little of it wouldn’t satisfy you either,so you have to take it moderately.The more you wants it,the weaker you become.And in this age,we wouldn’t want that to happen right?So,instead of sighing and weeping about your sad fate because your other half left you for someone else,or get fired from the job that you loves the most.DON’T!I mean DON’T ever think of going home n shelter yourselves in your room and keep on stuffing yourself with all those bad junk-food n sweets and ice-creams.Instead,you should keep your heads up because you have give your best and yet,bad things still happens.It’s ok,nobody blames you or hates you for it.Just love and learn to forgive yourself first rather thsn keep on blaming,punishing and tormenting yourself with all these crazy thoughts.Try to go out and socialize more with other people,discover new people,try new kind of food,do what you always want without second thoughts and just live your life fully like today is your last day on Earth.Be spontaneous and kinder than you used to be,be more compassion and passionate than before.Because you,yourself,and only you is worth it.Believe in it and do it and you will achieve something far greater.

                       Cats is one interesting companion to kept by our side.We loves them with all our heart and will take care of it more than we will take care of ourselves(ehemm,this applies to the females only,i guess?LOL).It is also because cat’s represents Memories and Longing that we have all these time.Since we can’t seem to get it or find it anywhere else eventhough we continuously and tirelessly search for it.So,we settle ourselves for something simple and way more cuter like cats since they are always cute,cuddly,docile and toilet-trained until it’s making us think that we don’t need everythin else except for our precious cats to filled our empth and endless sorrowful days.But,what we should really do is find other source of happiness to channels our inner energy and broken hearted minds into something that really productive and gets us something worth for like money for example.We can like,starts our own business or company,open up a new restaurant or fancy cafe or do more charity works.The key to this is we have to find our hidden talent and things that we love and longs to do and be since long time ago but could never be fulfilled in the past.Believe me,if you could dream it,you could make it real.

                 We have now came to the most critical and fearful aspects in this topic.GUYS.BOYS.MEN.Call them whatever you like but let me tell you,these creatures is one dangerous thing indeed.It is poisonous,yet can be very docile and sweet at times.When they’re angry or mad at you for something or someone,they can be very very ferocious,but you can’t help yourself from loving them because of their charming features and deception it brings.LOVE is DESOLATION.LOVE is also SWEET.Either or,once we engulfed and deeply involved with these creatures,we will be doomed for sure(in a good and bad way).Because for most of us Girls,and Womens,they represents everything in our life.Need,Love,Affection,Tenderness,Lust,Hate,Anger,Deception,Poison,Antidote,Vandetta,Happiness and many others that us females wants and longs for.And these Guys fills these needs and criteria perfectly.Yet,they have often become our reason for destruction,broken hearts,shattered dreams,faded hope,empty love and mostly the reason for our rebellious behaviour because of our loving nature of wanting to protect something that’s sacred to our heart.Oh boy,i know this feeling well.Deep longings,Missing like Death and other exaggerated words and feelings(i know it’s too much,but i can’t help myself.so,please bear with me).

                After a certain period of weeping and depression and rain-like tears,we would always end up as a more new,better,improved,prettier,wiser,maturer,independent,kinder,passionate,compassionate,in every way that w could never imagine of.Because that’s what life is all about.Just like what Ernest Hemingway used to said “we are all broken,that’s how the light gets in”.In order for us to achieve the ultimate happiness,we have to be broken and shattered into pieces so  that we can rebuild ourselves the way we wanted it to be.In this journey called LIFE,we will learned a lot about LOVE when we LOST it and we will learned a lot about being a FRIEND when we was all ALONE.Its ok,don’t be afraid because those who seems the hardest to love and accepts love,needs it the MOST.Sometimes,the very thing that we’re most afraid of doing is the one that could sets us free.Because every girls should remember that we doesn’t need anyone who doesn’t need us.Yet,even as i’m thinking about this,i could never deny this truth that’s been lingering in my mind for quite sometimes that’s can be translated from Shakespeare quotes in Romeo and Juliet,”My bounty is as boundless as the sea,My love as deep;the more i give to thee,The more i have,for both are Infinite”.The only thing in this world that could never be killed is LOVE itself,even if you lost it now,we can always find it back sooner or later.Don’t worry and just stay true to yourself and your TRUE LOVE will come flying to your side.BELIEVE AND HOPE AND DREAMED ON because these are the reasons we keep on going. 

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